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Sunday, December 11, 2011

Sofia, 11 Months



Sofia is almost always happy. She recovers from bonks and frustrations easily, but lately I have seen glimpses of a force within her to be reckoned with. Recently, when she doesn't get something she wants, she looks straight into my eyes and starts to rear her head back, threatening to flop back onto the floor. I don't know where this is leading, but for now it makes me giggle to see thirty inches of chubby rolls act so dramatic.

She loves putting objects into containers and taking them out. Especially herself, into baskets, drawers and suitcases. She gets exhilarated and giddy when I wave a sheet near her and she feels the wind in her face. She bounces to my brother's electronic music and she loves Winnie-the-Pooh.




A couple of weeks back she went through a two-day spell of non-stop babbling. And I mean NON STOP. Her chosen words were Takata, takata, takata and tika, tika, tika (accent on the second syllable like Degas.) She is not saying any (English) words consistently although from time to time she will say something that makes us do a double take. She almost certainly said "thank you" when I handed her a yum-yum during a meeting at Lucas's school. If she was trying to score points in advance of her Montessori interview I think it worked. Anu, the primary director seemed impressed!

She's waking up once a night. I'm not rushing to do anything about it because otherwise she is a great sleeper and I don't want to rock the boat. She goes down happily and on her own at around 7pm, wakes up around 3-4 to nurse and then sleeps til 7:30. She naps 9-11 and 2-4.

Still four teeth on the top and two on the bottom. We seem to be stalled out here.

She is an amazing eater! With all the energy she expends she is very hungry at mealtime. She eats a combination of finger foods and pureed foods that I spoon feed her. I just fed her couscous pudding (milk, yogurt, raisins, cinnamon and couscous) and she liked it. She usually eats about four meals a day with a nibble or two in between. Today it was oatmeal and eggs with onions for breakfast, buttered toast and banana for lunch, a fig newton for a snack, and chicken nuggets, cheese, and sweet potatoes (which caused a rare tongue-thrust rejection) for dinner. Couscous pudding was bed-time snack.

I've started to serve her food on a plate, and not the plastic kind. This makes Lucas nervous since he's seen her throw pieces of food off the tray, but how will she ever learn if I don't take a risk? Besides, she is not usually into throwing heavy or potentially loud objects, like our everyday China. The first time her food was presented this way, she was quite occupied with lifting the plate and almost overturning it. Thankfully we did a practice round with plastic because she ended the meal by chucking it overboard. But since then she is more interested in the food. And I just keep an eye on her. When she starts to lose interest in eating, before the idea of throwing enters her mind, I zoom into the "all done" routine.

I never thought we would have an eleven-month-old crawler, but here she is. She likes to stand, and can easily stand from a seated position without even using her hands. But despite this, she seems to have no intentions of walking any time soon. And although I'd like to have her off the ground for outside play, I am happy to retain her babiness for a while. :)

I think she and Lucas are going to be great playmates. Although he can be a bit Tigger-like around her, I see his protective side coming out more and more. He's very proud to introduce her to people we meet and he is obviously happy to have a sibling. We're fortunate to have bypassed any major baby jealousy issues. We just get comments like "it's not fair that she's staying up later" on the rare occasions that she does, and things of that nature. I shouldn't complain.

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

More Lucasisms


-"When you look outside, you can't see raindrops because they are the same color as the whole wide world so you can't notice them."

-"I'm on the Falcons-Georgia-Bulldogs team and you are South Carolina." This is the case whenever we play football/soccer with him.

-"Santa is going to tiptoe down here and put in a swing set and a sandbox."

-At school, Lucas drew a jeep, skateboard and pick-up truck.
L: "Paul thought it was bad. But Audrey thought it was AWESOME! I like Audrey more than Paul."
Chris: "How did that make you feel when Paul said it was bad? Did it make you feel sad? Angry?"
L: "Bad."
C: "When you do art it doesn't matter what other people think. It matters how you feel in your heart."
L: "I felt stomping in my heart." Still talking about how he felt about Paul's comment. For the record, Paul has been Lucas's best friend eight times out of ten in the past two weeks. We are in a real prioritizing friendships phase.

-Last night, Sofia was sleeping well and I was enjoying a rare night of sleep myself. So, of course, Lucas took a turn a cried out at 4am. I came into his room and this is what he had for me.
L: "My dream was boring."
Me: "You had a bad dream?"
L: "No, it was boring."

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Lucas's Room

After shuffling things around a bit, I'm liking Lucas's room. It's ended up a "Things That Go/Bulldogs/Legos/Europe" theme...


I make the bed since it's a queen size and have Lucas do the pillows.

I fell in love with this quilt and had to have it. It sold out everywhere on the web and I had to hunt it down on e-bay. Then Chris's mom found a matching sham (currently in the wash) at TJ Maxx!

Lego extravaganza! The Primary Director Anu said in so many words, don't ask him to clean them up, they are important to him. So I don't. The pics are from our time in Prague.

I got out an IKEA lantern thingie and had Lucas go to town on it with some paints. Then hung a little basket underneath and voila, a hot air balloon! Got the idea from a kids' cafe in Prague.

Lucas's first fortune ever, no lie.

This is where the LEGO magic happens.


Thursday, November 10, 2011

Oh, this is going to be so much fun...

My first barrette (thank you, Christi! She's already gotten compliments.)

My first coat (thank you Elviera! It's the perfect fit and weight and SO cute.)

Now what to do with all this new found chic? I think I'll climb into the laundry basket...



Oops!

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Backyard Makeover: Phase 1

Earlier this year we decided we wanted/needed to do something with the backyard. One of the biggest selling points of our house was the view of the forest. Fall is especially beautiful. But one of the lower points was that the yard is sloped. Perfect for racing dumptrucks, but otherwise not very practical.

So we've decided to level an area for things such as a swing set and sandbox, put in a fire pit and build a garden. Lucas LOVES the swings. The other day he was had even turned a kitchen chair into a pretend swing and was practicing the motion. Charlie and Dani, Lucas's friends from class, are letting us borrow their dad and his landscaping team for the project. So far, in phase one, they have completed the wall for the play area and hauled one load of dirt in.

The yard will slope into an 18x32 level play area. The fire pit will be in front of the two large trees at the right of the picture.

A 12x16 garden will be in the sunny side of the yard.

I don't know if I've ever seen Lucas as excited as when they asked him to help.


True Temper and Lil' True Temper



My hard-working boy never forgets to bring me flowers at the end of the day. Just like his daddy!

Monday, November 7, 2011

Sofia, Ten Months

Photo courtesy of Lucas.

Sofia is 31 inches long (99 percentile) and 21lb 11oz(65 percentile) with a head circumference in the 70 percentile. Lucas's corresponding stats at this age were 99/99/75ish. She had a bad cold during her ten month appointment but Dr. Abrams said there is nothing in the ears or lungs. He is not too excited about the Nose Frida which I use a lot when she is congested. "She must really love that" was his reaction. But he isn't adamantly opposed to it either. He recommends a cold mist humidifier, vick's on the feet (and/or just gently massaging the feet to stimulate healing) and a bit of ALJ (which we have really come to rely on for everyone in the house during cold season.) We used Thieves Oil as an alternative to Vick's and she seemed to really enjoy the footsie massage. I don't know if I've mentioned it before but I am in love with our pediatrician. He is the best!

PLAYTIME
Gigi gave Sofia her first official doll. But so far, she is crawling straight past it with a courtesy smile (because she knows that we want her to like it) toward dirt and tools, or heavy objects she can lift. Don't worry Gigi...Chris and Lucas are getting plenty of use out of the doll. The raspberry sound she makes always makes us giggle.

One of her favorite activities is unloading the dishwasher with me. I quickly rearrange it to put some plastic dishes near her side and she plays with those while I unload. She loves it for a long time and when she starts crawling into the dishwasher we move on to something else.

She is courageous yet cautious and deliberate. Except for the time she managed to do a front flip off of the bed and (thankfully) onto a thick lambskin rug. It fazed her for about 3 seconds and then she was off to new adventures.

She can stand solidly and play with things without holding on to anything. She can even squat all the way down to get something and pop right back up. She still has no interest in walking.

TEETHING
Nothing new...two on the bottom, four on top.

EATING
She has modified the signs for "more" and "all done." "More" is now repeated hard slaps on the tray and "all done" is a sudden whack at the spoon that sends food flying in random directions. She is losing her patience for pureed food (except when she's in the bathtub) and is currently enjoying peas, crackers, bits of banana, tiny bites of pizza, Katletke (Russian-style ground beef patties,) eggs and a new favorite: Baby Mum Mums (a easily dissolved and quite tasty rice cracker.)

SLEEPING
She is still quite an erratic sleeper, mainly because she is picking up so many viruses. Thankfully she's still pretty cheerful, despite it all.

Friday, November 4, 2011

Healthy Spontenaeity


This has been my recent prayer, for Lucas to develop a healthy spontaneity in a world of routines. I have been realizing that this can only happen if I break through the boundaries of my own comfort zones and I hope to do so often. Yesterday, I was getting the Ergo out of the car when inspiration struck - Lucas could ride around under the cover of the carport while watching the gentle rain outside. I kept the door open and nursed Sofia inside the house with a view of Lucas scooting around in glee. Of course things couldn't stay this easy. Soon he was running around with his wheelbarrow in the now pouring down rain (in his NB...we lost his rain boots) and jumping into puddles. I decided that if he put on his waterproof ear-flap hat he could do it. We've got too many bugs flying around this house for cold ears.

But then it started really pouring which made my intentions of being a free-spirited mom go south fast. We have watched way too many documentaries on lightning lately (his passion.) So it was "no, stay in the carport"..."ok, but do it quickly"..."one more time"..."I mean it!"..."Don't run in the carport, it's slippery"..."You're lucky you fell on your popka. Now you'll remember to walk"..."Stop running!"..."Walk!"

Of course this symphony of escalating commands and almost-5-year-old jubilation culminated in mild disaster - falling and banging his knee pretty badly. But I think he'd say it was worth it.